Sometimes a pregnancy ends differently than you had hoped for or expected. Twenty percent of all pregnant women experience vaginal bleeding in the first 16 weeks of their pregnancy. Ultimately, 10 percent of all pregnancies end in a miscarriage. For the other 10 percent of women who experience blood loss during their pregnancy, the bleeding has no significance.
The higher the age of the mother, the greater the risk of a miscarriage. Signs of a miscarriage are usually vaginal bleeding and abdominal pain. These symptoms can intensify during a miscarriage and lessen after the embryo has been disposed of. Obviously, intense abdominal pain and excessive blood loss are a good reason to call the emergency telephone number. If you have a little blood loss, you can call us during office hours.
A miscarriage is a natural, but intense experience. Sadness and disappointment are a natural and logical response. Obviously, we will be there for you during this difficult time.
A miscarriage has an emotional impact
Many women experience a difficult time after a miscarriage. A miscarriage often has more impact than you could have imagined beforehand. We know this applies to women but also to their partners.
For instance, a consequence of the miscarriage is that your future will be different than you had expected. Losing a child abrubtly brings an end to all plans and fantasies about this child.
Perhaps you wonder what went wrong. It might comfort you to know that pregnancies that end in a miscarriage are usually pregnancies in which something was wrong from the start. This implies that the miscarriage was a natural and logical event. However, despite this factual explanation, you might think that you could have done something to prevent the miscarriage. However understandable, there is absolutely no reason to feel guilty.
Also good to know: nobody can tell you when to stop grieving. Everybody experiences a miscarriage differently. Everybody grieves differently. Give yourself the time you need.
Have you noticed that you have been low on energy for a long time? Or that you keep worrying? Find help to cope with the loss of your child. This is something you need to deal with. Find treatment that suits you.
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